Tag: Family Psychology

Freud and B, considered the Rake "love" as reflected the perception of their own unmet ideals in a partner, Peel provodig parallel between drug use and love (the dependence on feelings of satisfaction contributes to an underestimation of their self-esteem). On Kesler, "love"-an indication that the needs of a healthy person, and according to Freud, and the rake, "love" is not a pathology, but characterizes the neurotic personality. Thus, the dependence of the clients of psychotherapists from our partners shows that the "inadequate personality are more dependent on love, in order to survive psychologically." Thus, the notion of inadequacy is used differently by different authors. Here is an example of the domestic development of the theory of love the author's so-called "syntax of love." Theory of love Afanasiev. "Love" is a special state of euphoria caused by the illusion to find "happiness" in conjunction with the subject, those endowed with enough mental properties, which is lacking. The author explained his idea of the internal architecture of man, consisting of four mental modules or functions: Emotions ("soul"), Logic ("Wit"), Physics ("body") and Will ("spirit"). This set of features common to all people, but it forms the identity of a hierarchy that determines the difference between people. "As nature puts on one another, these four bricks, so is the will of the individual's inner world." Something in the psyche man is strong enough zhiznetvoryaschim, but something weak, inadequate, deficient, requiring additions and development. People come together to varying degrees, successfully, aiming at harmony of mind and life, respectively hierarchies of their functions.

If the case is severe and justified, for example, tragedy or grief, forgive quickly and go to the doctor – you need help serious and joke with you, I will not. I sincerely wish you good health, patience and effort. For the rest, those who, for example, thinks that the divorce from her husband quarrel with your best friend or dismissal from work – grief, I can give some advice. So, the way the first, most reliable, absolutely helps – put an end to this affair at all. Well, that is, this wretched life. There are options to everyone's taste: A rope, soap, they posited a stool. Just do not take the belt from a bathrobe, her husband's bastard. Even Time the same flimsy, can not survive.

Part of the railway: rails, sleepers. Just look at the schedule – go here if in principle the train. More – Leo Tolstoy "Anna Karenina." More. You can borrow a detective. There is only one "but" – sin is unlikely to be forgiven. And if it is forgiven you, then pass on an inheritance to your children. Getting rid yourself of depression, you will condemn her loved ones. If you do not care and it's, well, then – go ahead! Next – from personal experience, cool and efficient advice, not jokes, and we can write: Break from the tear-stained pillow wet, make sure you have at least polzarplaty in your purse and go to the station. Buy a ticket to any city – there and (you) back.

In a psychologist's office often come people who suffer from love. Despite the tendency to ennoble our culture a sense of love, love in ordinary life can be very painful experience and destructive. Flour jealousy, fear of loss and despair of unrequited love, the pain of betrayal – of unbearable feelings of lovers. Recently I came to accept fairly successful in social terms, a woman who was in a long love affair with a man, and who, moreover, was her boss. She contributed to many for this connection: she moved behind him in another city, threw familiar surroundings and favorite work, and even with time, divorced her husband. Some time later, after a quarrel with this man, at night, she unexpectedly went neck blood, her hospitalized and put the terrible diagnosis – tuberculosis. The diagnosis of shocking – because, as she own admission, she had never even flu sick.

A woman is treated extensively, and has the effect of treatment – she is recovering, but needs time to rehabilitate. Her friend angry and horrified, though, it seems not for her, but rather for themselves. It prohibits grossly appear in her work and does not want to meet or talk. Require formal evidence of its recovery, accused of falsifying the results of treatment. His reaction hurt her, they look wild and mysterious against the background of previous "good" relationship. What really happened? I think I'm too confused, but trying to clarify their relationship, I draw attention to a single sentence, that this woman is dropped accidentally.